| 01:34:36 44 |
"YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO A WOMAN"
COUPLE EATING DINNER, WOMAN UPSET. CLICHE: "YOUR GOING TO MAKE ME SOUR". FINDING FAULTS WITH HUSBAND |
| 01:36:13 141 |
MAN CLOSING HIMSELF OFF WITH NONVERBAL GESTURE,
CROSSES HIS ARMS TIGHTLY TO BODY |
| 01:36:44 172 |
COUPLE AT DINNER TABLE FIGHTING-ARGUING ABOUT
SOCIAL LIFE. |
| 01:37:20 208 |
HUSBAND TRYING TO COMFORT WIFE, CARESSES HER
NECK. ANGRILY SHE SAYS "WILL YOU STOP POKING ME?" |
| 01:37:26 214 |
CLICHE: WOMAN SAYS "YOU SIMPLY DON'T KNOW
HOW TO TALK TO A WOMAN". |
| 01:38:08 256 |
CAN'T I ASK WHERE THE MONEY'S GOING?
BLACK COUPLE GOING OVER BILLS. ARGUMENT BREAKS OUT. COUPLE ARGUING OVER MONEY |
| 01:40:17 385 |
CLICHES: "YOU STARTED IT, YOUR SO NEUROTIC ABOUT
MONEY" "YOU SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEBODY WITH A FORTUNE" "YOU MADE ME FEEL LIKE A FAILURE" |
| 01:40:43 411 |
MAN CLOSING HIMSELF OFF, NON VERBALLY, HANDS ALL
OVER FACE |
| 01:41:55 483 |
YOU DON'T WANT TO BE A WIFE
OLDER WOMAN FIXING LAMP. HUSBAND SHOWING POWER OVER WIFE NON VERBALLY, STANDING OVER WIFE LOOKING DOWN AT HER |
| 01:42:36 524 |
CLICHE: MAN SAYS "ITS HARDLY MY HOUSE ANYMORE"
"ITS YOUR HOUSE, YOU & THE KIDS, I JUST LIVE HERE" "I'M OUT MAKING A LIVING" |
| 01:43:21 569 |
CLICHE: MAN SAYS "AT LEAST SAY HELLO WHEN I COME
HOME, OR GET ME A DRINK" |
| 01:43:24 572 |
WIFE CLICHE: "I'M NOT GOING TO STAND AROUND HERE
& WAIT TILL 6:30 TO BE YOUR HOSTESS" |
| 01:43:44 592 |
GREAT ANGRY FACE ON HUSBAND, BULGING EYES
DOMINEERING WIFE, WOMAN |
| 01:45:05 673 |
HUSBAND GETS UP, GRABS COAT, SAYS "I'LL SEE
YOU LATER". STORMS OUT |
| 01:45:38 706 |
CAN'T YOU AT LEAST CLEAR THE TABLE"
YOUNG COUPLE SITTING AT TABLE AFTER DINNER, HUSBAND READING NEWSPAPER. WIFE ASKS HIM IF HE COULD AT LEAST CLEAR THE TABLE, FIGHT BREAKS OUT. |
| 01:45:54 722 |
MALE CLICHE: I'M SICK OF THIS PHONEY LIBERATION
WOMAN BUSINESS" GESTURING WITH FIST. |
| 01:46:57 785 |
WOMAN TALKING WITH HANDS
|
| 01:47:16 804 |
MALE CLICHE: "MY FRIENDS & I DON'T SIT AROUND
ON OUR BEHINDS BITCHING ABOUT THEIR WIVES" |
| 01:47:43 831 |
HUSBAND LEAVING SAYS "I GOTTA GET OUTTA HERE
& GET SOME PEACE" |
| 01:47:47 835 |
ANGRY WIFE SAYS "OH YOU GO AHEAD & HAVE A GOOD
TIME, HAVE YOUR SEX & YOUR BOOZE & YOUR CARS DON'T YOU WORRY ABOUT. ME, I'LL JUST KEEP THE HOUSE RUNNING" |
| 01:48:30 878 |
YOU'RE DROPPING OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE
HUSBAND SITTING ON COUCH READING NEWSPAPER, WIFE COMES HOME "HONEY I'M HOME" KISSES HIM. HE'S ANGRY AT WIFE BECAUSE SHE WENT OUT WITH FRIENDS FROM WORK |
| 01:49:14 922 |
CU WOMAN TAKING EARRINGS OFF
|
| 01:49:23 931 |
CLICHE: HUSBAND SAYS "YOU WANT TO BE FREE, GO
AHEAD, I KNOW THIS GAME". ARGUING ABOUT ANOTHER MAN |
| 01:50:13 981 |
WOMAN TAKING OFF MAKE UP FROM EYES WITH TISSUE
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| 01:52:52 1140 |
WIFE TALKING TO HUSBAND ABOUT HER DAY, HUSBAND
BLOWS HER OFF. CLICHE: "HONEY I'M VERY TIRED, CAN'T WE TALK ABOUT IT IN THE MORNING". UNCARING HUSBAND |
| 01:53:52 1200 |
WHY DON'T YOU ACT LIKE A FATHER?
CU MIXING BOWL. WIFE COOKING, BAKING. |
| 01:53:58 1206 |
SPANISH COUPLE, HUSBAND EXPECTING WIFE TO TAKE
OF HIM. WIFE TELLING HUSBAND HE SHOULD SPEND MORE TIME WITH CHILDREN. WIFE CLICHE: YOU COME HOME, GET DRESSED, GO OUT, & I GET LEFT ALONE, THATS JUST GREAT". ANGRY WIFE. HUSBAND TRYING TO CALM WIFE DOWN. |
| 01:56:37 1365 |
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Year: 1981
Color: Color
Genre: SOCIAL ISSUES
Description: INTENDED TO HELP COUPLES DEVELOP BETTER APPROACHES TO COMMUNICATION. DRAMATIC VIGNETTES POSING FAMILIAR PROBLEMS: BRINING UP THE PAST, GENERALIZING FROM ONE OR TWO INCIDENTS, IMPLIED INSULTS & ACTUAL NAME CALLING, MISSING THE POINT OF A STATEMENT, & GUESSING AT & CRITICIZING THE OTHER PERSON'S MOTIVATION.
